Last Sunday’s Playlist: Easter 4A, Mother’s Day – ‘Eat’ Service

11th May 2014, Easter 4A: Colour: White/ Gold  

Highlights from our Sunday 10am ‘Work of The People’  EAT SERVICE  ‘playlist’… in the hope that it may re-source you to better follow Jesus in your world…

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Welcome/Grace/Sharing Bread

1. The first time this story was told

they gathered around a table

a ragged collection of people –

sinners, betrayers, the power-hungry, fragile, lonely lost.

2. The first time this story was told,

Jesus promised that it was for all time

that whenever the bread was broken

and the wine was poured,

wherever the story was told around the table

he would be there.

3. Today we tell the story

as its been told a thousand times over;

we break the bread,

and we pour the wine;

sure, as we do,

that we belong at this table

and that Jesus is here with us.

4. Jesus blessed you, Father, for the food;

he took bread, gave thanks, broke it and said:

this is my body, given for you all.

Send your Spirit on us now, that by these gifts we may

feed on Christ with opened eyes and hearts on fire.


If we come to this table angry,

let this bread and wine be our peace.

If we come to the table as sinners,

let this bread and wine be our grace.

If we come to the table betrayed,

let this bread and wine be our wholeness.

If we come to the table broken,

let this bread and wine be our hope.

If we come to the table empty,

let this bread and wine be our life.

For this is a holy table,

with food to fill a hungry world

and wine to quench thirsty hearts.

It is God’s in the making,

and ours for the taking.

adapted from Cheryl Lawrie : Hold This Space

PoC (Prayer of Confession/Affirmation)

We introduced confession mentioning Anne Lamott’s Facebook post… see the whole thing below…
Anne Lamott

Here is a piece from that I wrote in 2010, as a rejoinder to the really sickening national appoach to Mother’s Day. And P.S. I miss my mom like crazy:I did not raise my son, Sam, to celebrate Mother’s Day. I didn’t want him to feel some obligation to buy me pricey lunches or flowers, some annual display of gratitude that you have to grit your teeth and endure. Perhaps Mother’s Day will come to mean something to me as I grow even dottier in my dotage, and I will find myself bitter and distressed when Sam dutifully ignores the holiday. Then he will feel ambushed by my expectations, and he will retaliate by putting me away even sooner than he was planning to — which, come to think of it, would be even more reason to hate Mother’s Day.But Mother’s Day celebrates a huge lie about the value of women: that mothers are superior beings, that they have done more with their lives and chosen a more difficult path. Ha! Every woman’s path is difficult, and many mothers were as equipped to raise children as wire monkey mothers. I say that without judgment: It is, sadly, true. An unhealthy mother’s love is withering.

The illusion is that mothers are automatically happier, more fulfilled and complete. But the craziest, grimmest people this Sunday will be the mothers themselves, stuck herding their own mothers and weeping children and husbands’ mothers into seats at restaurants. These mothers do not want a box of chocolate. These mothers are on a diet.

I hate the way the holiday makes all non-mothers, and the daughters of dead mothers, and the mothers of dead or severely damaged children, feel the deepest kind of grief and failure. The non-mothers must sit in their churches, temples, mosques, recovery rooms and pretend to feel good about the day while they are excluded from a holiday that benefits no one but Hallmark and See’s. There is no refuge — not at the horse races, movies, malls, museums. Even the turn-off-your-cellphone announcer is going to open by saying, “Happy Mother’s Day!” You could always hide in a nice seedy bar, I suppose. Or an ER.

It should go without saying that I also hate Valentine’s Day.

Mothering has been the richest experience of my life, but I am still opposed to Mother’s Day. It perpetuates the dangerous idea that all parents are somehow superior to non-parents. (Meanwhile, we know the worst, skeeviest, most evil people in the world are CEOs and politicians who are proud parents.)

Don’t get me wrong: There were times I could have literally died of love for my son, and I’ve felt stoned on his rich, desperate love for me. But I bristle at the whispered lie that you can know this level of love and self-sacrifice only if you are a parent. We talk about “loving one’s child” as if a child were a mystical unicorn. Ninety-eight percent of American parents secretly feel that if you have not had and raised a child, your capacity for love is somehow diminished. Ninety-eight percent of American parents secretly believe that non-parents cannot possibly know what it is to love unconditionally, to be selfless, to put yourself at risk for the gravest loss. But in my experience, it’s parents who are prone to exhibit terrible self-satisfaction and selfishness, who can raise children as adjuncts, like rooms added on in a remodel. Their children’s value and achievements in the world are reflected glory, necessary for these parents’ self-esteem, and sometimes, for the family’s survival. This is how children’s souls are destroyed.

But my main gripe about Mother’s Day is that it feels incomplete and imprecise. The main thing that ever helped mothers was other people mothering them; a chain of mothering that keeps the whole shebang afloat. I am the woman I grew to be partly in spite of my mother, and partly because of the extraordinary love of her best friends, and my own best friends’ mothers, and from surrogates, many of whom were not women at all but gay men. I have loved them my entire life, even after their passing.

No one is more sentimentalized in America than mothers on Mother’s Day, but no one is more often blamed for the culture’s bad people and behavior. You want to give me chocolate and flowers? That would be great. I love them both. I just don’t want them out of guilt, and I don’t want them if you’re not going to give them to all the people who helped mother our children. But if you are going to include everyone, then make mine something like M&M’s, and maybe flowers you picked yourself, even from my own garden, the cut stems wrapped in wet paper towels, then tin foil and a waxed-paper bag from my kitchen drawers. I don’t want something special. I want something beautifully plain. Like everything else, it can fill me only if it is ordinary and available to all.

We then used ‘s Amy Young’s  Mothering Continuum as a responsive prayer

MoW (Ministry of the Word):

NT Wright helped us think about this Sunday’s gospel reading… John 10:1-10 video

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We had a discussion around the table about how we may EAT abundantly in our lives and as a community in preparation for our Covenanting Service at Pentecost.

Last Drinks & Post Communion Prayer

Thanksgiving Prayer after Communion

Maybe in this there has been a glimpse of the kingdom

a foretaste

a hint

a promise.

Let it hold you and let it send you

so you will never be at peace

until all are fed

until all know home

until all are free

until justice is done

until peace is the way

until grace is the law

until love is the rule.

Until God’s economy comes

until God’s economy comes

until God’s economy comes…


Adapted from Cheryl Lawrie’s Hold This Space



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